Melissa, Hello there.
Do forgive me should I get any of the following;out of sequence or plain wrong. I mean no offence, either way.
You did that most human. not to say womanly, thing of allowing your approaching nuptials to encourage you to slim down into your wedding dress and honeymoon cossy.
You invited all here to your celebration.
You went off.
You announced your return, to much acclaim and appreciation from Forum members. You had clearly been missed.
As a stranger here myself, you and other poppers-in are a source of both colour and depth that bring the vibrant community of Dover alive to such as me and are clearly appreciated for your personality and outlook here in the nether-world of the internet and in person around and about.
Should you find it the least bit awkward to respond to the pleas from those who you know please accept what I, a stranger to your person, have to add...
"Baby, please don't go..."
All the best you.
Ignorance is bliss, bliss is happiness, I am happy...to draw your attention to the possible connectivity in the foregoing.