Guest 649- Registered: 12 Mar 2008
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#41
Guest 672- Registered: 3 Jun 2008
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#42
Maybe you are, Maybe your not Vic but some posters need to look at their life and style of posting and get their life back and stop being such P****s.
grass grows by the inches but dies by the feet.
Guest 868- Registered: 25 Jan 2013
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#43
Here here Ian
. This thread was only set up to stir, if only people could spend as much energy trying to do to good for the town as they do b*tching it will be a much better place
Guest 722- Registered: 23 Aug 2011
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#44
Ian wrote:I really do de spare. I have to admit it is not often I post now, but I do so now and again for fear of being ( banned, thrown off, rejected or other wise )
I read the forum every single day and am really disappointed with some of the crap that some people post. I don't see any point in replying to some posts but this one created has to be the ultimate shit stir amongst posters.
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I agree entirely Ian. What a complete waste of time this has become.
Andy
Guest 653- Registered: 13 Mar 2008
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#45
Roger
Guest 710- Registered: 28 Feb 2011
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#46
Gentle-persons all...
It is surely a question of balance. If all that appears here is argy-bargy then all that will be here is argy-bargy. Nobody is working to correct that imbalance by doing nothing or by putting one's halfpenny's worth into the argy-bargy mix.
As we are all taught:if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing. That relies upon having nothing to say that is positive, to begin with.
If you can respond to a thread here you can also begin one yourself. "...is for good men to do nothing." ?
Ignorance is bliss, bliss is happiness, I am happy...to draw your attention to the possible connectivity in the foregoing.
Guest 715- Registered: 9 Jun 2011
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#47
I do read the other forum from time to time and I have to admit it disappoints me when I see members of this forum having a dig at this forum on there, I just do not get that, it may not be perfect but it is ours.
Audere est facere.
Guest 716- Registered: 9 Jun 2011
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#48
# 47 ......totally agree.......
Brian Dixon
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#49
the only sensable thing to do is not to post on this thread then.
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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#50
lost on me too martin no wonder paul b chucked it in.
Keith Sansum1
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#51
Thankyoou you martin you have grasped it
ALL POSTS ARE MY OWN PERSONAL VIEWS
Guest 756- Registered: 6 Jun 2012
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#52
i am not a regular poster but do read most days. Sometimes I cannot understand the "politics" behind some peoples comments and , frankly, am detered from posting just in case my comments are misinterpreted and I then have to spend time trying to rectify a misunderstanding or apologise for a spelling mistake. We are not all wordsmiths or experts on the keyboard!
Everyone is entitied to an opinion and I am all for good honest debate but hate personal attacks. Please, if you do have a problem with someones comments have the good grace to face them openly, explain your differences in a calm and polite way, without insulting language and offensive remarks, live and let live.
Keith Sansum1- Location: london
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#53
good post lesley
how are you these days?
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Guest 756- Registered: 6 Jun 2012
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#54
Thanks Keith, doing okay now, still struggling with probate, seems never ending but still early days I suppose. My confidence has taken a huge knock and years in a controlling and abusive relationship has made dealing with finances difficult. I'll get there and look forward to rekindling old friendships, just hope people will understand why I slipped off the radar.
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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#55
sorry to hear that lesley, i noticed that you had stopped posting in the aftermath of vic's passing, hope things pan out well enough for you to restart your life in due course.
Guest 756- Registered: 6 Jun 2012
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#56
Thanks Howard, I have had fantastic support from my family and close friends. Just started a part time job to ease myself back into work and am enjoying the independance. Need to find myself again and I will !!!
Keith Sansum1- Location: london
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#57
well lesley good luck im always on end of the phone
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