It is a wise kiddy-party hostess that ensures that there is enough of everything to go around;tantrums being so unseemly.
David Cameron under new pressure to hold EU referendum before election
Former Labour minister Tom Watson adds to Tory calls for vote before 2015
"David Cameron is under fresh pressure from both sides of the house to call an EU referendum before the election, as the prominent Labour MP Tom Watson joined a Tory campaign for an early vote.
Watson, a former Labour minister and campaign director, said he was planning to support Adam Afriyie, a Tory backbencher, who is leading calls for an in-out poll before 2015.
The move has been firmly rebuffed by No 10, which said the prime minister would in no circumstances allow a referendum before he had had a chance to renegotiate Britain's relationship with EU. Cameron is supporting a bill by James Wharton, a backbencher, which sets out a plan to hold a referendum before the end of 2017.
However, Afriyie is not satisfied with this timetable, arguing that voters are suspicious that they are not being allowed to have a say on Britain's EU membership straight away. He is planning to table an amendment to Wharton's bill calling for a referendum on 23 October 2014.
The Windsor MP has been the subject of speculation that he would like to be leader of the Conservative party. Speaking on Sky News's Murnaghan programme, he said it was "media tittle-tattle" that he wanted to succeed Cameron and insisted he was loyal to the leadership, but said he could not "sit quietly" while the referendum was put off until 2017.
Watson added fuel to the row by saying "a lot of people" in both Labour and the Conservatives wanted a referendum sooner..."
http://www.theguardian.com/politics/2013/oct/06/david-cameron-eu-referendum-election