Ross Miller
- Location: London Road, Dover
- Registered: 17 Sep 2008
- Posts: 3,706
7 January 2011
17:1088051So Melissa, I know I am a nosy old so and so, but why?
"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today." - James Dean
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,
While loving someone deeply gives you courage" - Laozi
7 January 2011
17:4188060How about Eileen Dover.....
7 January 2011
18:1888062Well ok i will answer as nothing to hide.
Marks family have never liked or accepted me lately things has got worse as they now wont have nothing to do with the kids and even snubbed them at christmas just gone sadly i wont tolerate this behaviour towards my children so hence why now after twelve years with Mark i feel the time is right to make a clean break as i dont wish to have any connection with people like this, i have never known the reason for their instant dislike towards me maybe beacause they feel i wasnt good enough for their son i dont know but sad as it is the whole family are standing with me and changing the surname to mine as at least i have the best family around me i could have .
7 January 2011
18:3188066Anyway im not spending my life worrying i dont make everyone happy or like me end of.
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
- Registered: 12 Mar 2008
- Posts: 62,352
7 January 2011
18:3388070all seems very unpleasant, i feel sorry for mark on this one.
getting back to your previous post mel, you may find that no woman is good enough for a mother's son.
7 January 2011
18:3788074Yes i agree he has always been the outsider really as he has three sisters but since he got with me things just went down hill a lot i could tell you but time to move on .
Guest 655- Registered: 13 Mar 2008
- Posts: 10,247
7 January 2011
18:4288079Mel - sorry to hear that. It is very sad and is a poor reflection on them. Good luck and I certainly don't blame you for dropping their name. Is Mark becoming a 'Pile' too? please excuse the expression...
7 January 2011
18:4488080Ross Miller
- Location: London Road, Dover
- Registered: 17 Sep 2008
- Posts: 3,706
7 January 2011
19:2288084Mel - sorry to hear of the family probs - nowt as queer as folk as they say
fully understand why you and Mark feel the need to change name
"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today." - James Dean
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,
While loving someone deeply gives you courage" - Laozi
7 January 2011
19:2688086Thanks for the support xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Brian Dixon
- Location: Dover
- Registered: 23 Sep 2008
- Posts: 23,940
7 January 2011
20:1688089mel,i am sorry to hear about your famly problem.i wonderd why you where a little frosty when i saw you last week.saw mum 10 minuets later but she said nothing.keep your chin up and look posative.

7 January 2011
20:2888092Guest 657- Registered: 13 Mar 2008
- Posts: 3,037
7 January 2011
20:4288096Mel I am truly sorry to hear that. All the best for the future x
Jan Higgins
- Location: Dover
- Registered: 5 Jul 2010
- Posts: 13,888
7 January 2011
21:1288099From what you have said Melissa things can only get better from now on. Good luck.

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8 January 2011
15:1788179Thankyou ladies it means a lot to have support from great people like yourselfs xxxxxxxxxx