20 September 2010
12:3771666Depends, Howard, on the original motivation. Flashers in particular tend to escalate the behaviour for more excitement. Knicker Nickers tend to be more isolated and introverted. It's complicated!!!
20 September 2010
14:5171682However Bern, with self control, there is no reason people should not be able to control their deviant behaviour.
I well remember, in the fourth form at school, one of the other pupils announcing that he was going to give up cigarettes and 'self abuse' for Lent.
After a couple of weeks I asked him how it was going.
He said it was going great, he was down to ten a day...............
and had cut down considerably on tobacco.
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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20 September 2010
14:5871685the youth of today don't know they are born bob.
20 September 2010
16:1071695Guest 698- Registered: 28 May 2010
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20 September 2010
16:1371696It wasn't me.
I'm an optimist. But I'm an optimist who takes my raincoat - Harold Wilson
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20 September 2010
16:4771701Are you sure Peter,you have been closed alot recently!
If you knew what I know,we would both be in trouble!
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20 September 2010
17:5871703Not really closed a lot, only this afternoon, as we spent the night in Watford to celebrate our grand-daughter's first birthday, and got back mid-afternoon.
Just my luck, there will be a piece in the Watford paper this week about a flasher, I expect!
PG.
I'm an optimist. But I'm an optimist who takes my raincoat - Harold Wilson
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20 September 2010
18:5971716What has always puzzled me is
If a man stands naked at his bedroom window and someone sees him he is a flasher
If a woman stands naked at her bedroom window and a man sees her he is a peeping tom
Why the difference in treatment
"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today." - James Dean
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength,
While loving someone deeply gives you courage" - Laozi
20 September 2010
19:1171719As they are both exhibitionists I can't see the difference. Well, I expect I could if I looked closely enough............
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20 September 2010
19:1871723
Bern.
I never thought of it like that Ross, so true though
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20 September 2010
19:4071734Love your post Bob, and yours Bern!
A while ago I saw a man drop his trousers outside Argos. Worried about the kids about - it was a Saturday - I went into Boots and asked them to alert the police via shopwatch. When I came out of Boots the police had him - hows that for fast!!
There's always a little truth behind every "Just kidding", a little emotion behind every "I don't care" and a little pain behind every "I'm ok".
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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20 September 2010
20:0271739i bet they had their truncheons out ready.
20 September 2010
20:5071744I am sure I have posted about this but here goes: ages ago I was walking my greyhound near the seafront at daybreak and a guy walked past, thought nothing of it. Next thing I knew he was on the sand, butt naked, running into the sea. Clearly I covered the dogs eyes and told him not to look, but I hung around (see what I did there....) to make sure it wasn't a Reggie Perrin jobbie. He was ok, so we gathered our dignity and left. Made me smile, though. The dog was ok after a period of counselling................
21 September 2010
08:3971821howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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21 September 2010
13:4171847sorry mel, i rarely get around your way.
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22 September 2010
19:2972004If you knew what I know,we would both be in trouble!
howard mcsweeney1- Location: Dover
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22 September 2010
19:5872013thank you for coming clean on that john, you will feel better for getting it out of your system, confession is good for the soul.
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22 September 2010
20:0472016No I was getting changed Howard to go out!
If you knew what I know,we would both be in trouble!
23 September 2010
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