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Good morning. I contacted the Chair of County RBL again to discuss wreaths and the upset caused by removal of same. The gentleman is in charge of 72 branches and, therefor extremely busy. We discussed various possibilities, settling on an idea I put forward; a set agreed time for poppies to be displayed respectfully by memorials in a secured manner. This can be achieved unobtrusively as demonstrated in many nearby towns. Those who placed wreaths, knowing the cut off date, to collect their wreaths on a date ( likely 2 days) at a time ( likely a full working day) if they so wish, to either re use or place on a grave for example. Those re using the wreath could, if they so wish, make a donation of equal or part value of a new wreath, to a military charity like, for example, Homeless Veterans. The gentleman will contact all his 72 branches to get their feed back. If positive, it might go further afield.
The idea, obviously in its infancy, might bring an end to the repeated distress. Once boundaries are set, people tend to feel happier, knowing what to expect. It was agreed that it is uncertainty and hasty decisions made by those not qualified to act on behalf of a representative group, who cause upset and unnecessary malease. Securing the wreaths as from day one, once the crouds have dispersed will be advised. This then leaves 2 options, if it's voted through, it's either agreed or not, but the public will be informed and there will be little doubt who to contact if matters go wrong again. Hope this is a clear explanation of what is being aimed for but it is not as yet certain by any means. Both the gentleman and I are very clear about one thing, this should never happen again, apologies should be forthcoming from all concerned, not just the persons who collected the wreaths and displayed their disposal extremely insensitively but all who could and should have done more. If 2018 is to be a year to honour and remember, let it be remembered in the best possible way. Lessons should be learned from this appallingly disrespectful way of handling people's emotions and let's not forget, a towns' reputation. I spent most of the day yesterday, discussing this particular incident with my husband's former fellow officers; they contacted me. Believe me when I say that the incredulity and absolute anger caused by this fiasco is mentioned in just about every officers' mess up and down the country. So having given my word that a resolution would be aimed for, the lengthy meeting with the County chair of RBL will hopefully go some way towards that.
