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I think there is a particularly harsh attitude that I have noticed in the rougher end of Dover society, as far as I have had dealings with it.
I would describe it as extreme self-centredness and cynicism combined with an attitude that you should do whatever you can get away and if you complain about being turned over it's a sign of weakness. No-one can expect any emotional support (and that sometimes, sadly, includes children who are dumped on other relatives to look after, not always out of necessity either). In essence it is a form of social anarchy - no rules or scruples at all. The opposite of civilisation.
It seems that you are expected to prop yourself up with booze, fags, junk food, whatever vice gets you through. In some ways it is an extreme manifestation of the musn't grumble, stiff upper lip attitude. Eastenders-on-Sea. It is cold, heartless and repressive but I think some people seem to know no other way.
Like you Howard I could cite examples from personal experience - sounds like your list is longer than mine.
I have to say I have also come across types who appear to be a selfless pillars of the community but counterbalance it with a self centred attitude in their personal life. Not to say everyone who does good works is that way though - far from it.
Paul, interesting point about hard times. I am not sure how big a part the economy plays - we are far richer now than 60 years ago but I bet this selfishness was less prevalent then. The cause is ignorance, the remedy education.
Perhaps it is because people perceive that there is more to be gained this way - it is a result of weath rather than poverty.
Reg you are right there will always be volunteers - not having a swipe at genuine people, of which there are many.
