Reading this thread highlights what we are all very good at and yes, the problems identified by some very able posters do exist. If we took everything in life to be true on first impressions, where would it all end I wonder?
We can all relate stories that create emotive responses and then sit back smugly and view the support, or otherwise, that our comments generate, but the clever one's are those that can do something about it!
Every problem that exists anywhere has a root cause and THAT is where, I suggest, the problem and the answers are to be found.
I suspect suggestions on the back of a postage stamp are forthcoming from those who tend to sit in judgement rather than offer constructive solutions.
We've identified the problem. What are the solutions?