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There is 'very close' and there is 'too close'.
Pregnant perhaps at 17? Many such, mention their anticipation of and the joy of becoming best-friends with their children, but too often there can be one too many children in such a relationship.
Politicians make great sport with one-another in the blame-game and bat responsibility back and forth, but on the personal, family level, the passing-off and the accepting too readily, of 'all-the-blame' is always tragic.
I mention Politicians because through the media and in casual conversation the idea builds up that a scape-goat is ever available. It is tragic too for those left behind, no matter the circumstances, for the help-mate is gone but the blame lingers on. "Pull your socks up!" "Stand on your own two feet!" Yet so little is said, so little is addressed, regarding the shifting, sucking nature of the ground beneath those feet.
Requescant in pace?