Calm is one thing that is more likely to be called for than manifest itself in such a 'vibrant' arena as this. As recent conduct in the HoCs has shown, it ill befits one forum-member telling another to, "calm down dear" and we all should be content to let that duty fall to PW.
I don't do Facebook, but it seems reasonable to me that some form of right to reply should exist when the fell hand of fate cuts a forum-member off from the forum, and I am happy that such a place is not here.
It would be less than correct of me to presume/assume that Bern knows that I would like to have her back here, or that she knows that I am willing to wait until she sees fit to return.
So...Biddy, here I bid ye. Will ye no come back again?
[I'm so wonwy....]